A Word on Presumption

A Word on Presumption

Vernon was a 22-year-old, born-again Christian when he fell in love with a pastor’s daughter. While praying for divine guidance, he supposedly found his Bible open at Isaiah 34 and noted that verse 16 promised, “none shall be without (their) mate, for the mouth of the Lord has commanded…” Convinced it was a direct message from God, he approached the pastor about his daughter. The pastor expelled him from the church. His daughter was only 15, and some say Vernon got her pregnant.

Vernon’s own mother was 15 and unmarried when he was born. He never knew his father. He lived under his mother’s violent alcoholic boyfriend. Later she dumped Vernon on his grandmother. At age 8, he was allegedly gang-raped by older boys. In school, kids nicknamed him “Mister Retardo,” because he had dyslexia. He dropped out of high school to avoid persecution. It’s not hard to understand how Vernon’s start in life left him vulnerable as a man.

Eventually he changed his name. His new name meant “Cyrus the Great,” in Persian. He came to believe he was God’s own prophet and usurped a Christian religious community with his message. Surprisingly, he taught a lot from the Bible. He also took many wives…Continue reading

Building Vocabulary With God

Building Vocabulary With God

Some might explain these kinds of things away. Not me.

With shining eyes, He looked down the teeter-totter at me and said, “Let’s play!”

If you’ve read my book, Closer Than Your Skin, or my recent blog post, “Closing The Case On God’s Heart,” you might remember those two words. It was the first thing Jesus said to me in a familiar scene from my childhood: I envisioned Jesus sitting on the other end of a teeter-totter with me. I was a young girl holding a heavy globe on my lap, and He was teaching me to roll the earth back to Him.

The conversation on that teeter-totter completely altered my worldview.

That simple playground vision happened during a prayer time at Elijah House in the late 1990s. I’d gone there to do some intentional forgiveness work. While I forgave many people in my life, the big surprise was the tight-fisted unforgiveness I held against God…Continue reading

True Love is an Invasion

True Love is an Invasion

Graham Cooke once said, “God is the kindest person I know.” And to say He’s kind is very important in a backbiting, sarcastic, jaded world that spotlights your tiniest flaw in a Simon Cowell way. However, kindness is not the whole story on love.

C. S. Lewis pointed to a greater love than mere kindness. For kindness alone might say, “What does it matter–what they do–as long as they are enjoying themselves.” Do we want God to be a kind old grandfather? Let’s be honest. Sure we do. We want the good life–beauty, romance, prosperity and adventure. We don’t want cholesterol, messy diapers, doctor bills, or boredom…not to mention sorrow, loss, tragedy and death.

But, as Lewis said, “kindness” like that doesn’t really consider what is good or bad for us–only that we don’t suffer.Continue reading