Building Vocabulary With God

Building Vocabulary With God

Some might explain these kinds of things away. Not me.

With shining eyes, He looked down the teeter-totter at me and said, “Let’s play!”

If you’ve read my book, Closer Than Your Skin, or my recent blog post, “Closing The Case On God’s Heart,” you might remember those two words. It was the first thing Jesus said to me in a familiar scene from my childhood: I envisioned Jesus sitting on the other end of a teeter-totter with me. I was a young girl holding a heavy globe on my lap, and He was teaching me to roll the earth back to Him.

The conversation on that teeter-totter completely altered my worldview.

That simple playground vision happened during a prayer time at Elijah House in the late 1990s. I’d gone there to do some intentional forgiveness work. While I forgave many people in my life, the big surprise was the tight-fisted unforgiveness I held against God…Continue reading

True Love is an Invasion

True Love is an Invasion

Graham Cooke once said, “God is the kindest person I know.” And to say He’s kind is very important in a backbiting, sarcastic, jaded world that spotlights your tiniest flaw in a Simon Cowell way. However, kindness is not the whole story on love.

C. S. Lewis pointed to a greater love than mere kindness. For kindness alone might say, “What does it matter–what they do–as long as they are enjoying themselves.” Do we want God to be a kind old grandfather? Let’s be honest. Sure we do. We want the good life–beauty, romance, prosperity and adventure. We don’t want cholesterol, messy diapers, doctor bills, or boredom…not to mention sorrow, loss, tragedy and death.

But, as Lewis said, “kindness” like that doesn’t really consider what is good or bad for us–only that we don’t suffer.Continue reading

The Thrash Effect

The Thrash Effect

I was traveling home from Cleveland and noticed an article about Ashton Kutcher in the in-flight magazine. Though this popular movie star has had the dubious distinction of being the most followed man on Twitter, the interview wasn’t the usual fare of celebrity worship.

Kutcher stated his aim in life is to generate what he calls “thrash,” or creating movement in a disruptive kind of way. He describes thrash saying it’s like a wake made by a boat, but moving toward some kind of goal. It’s not thrash for the sake of thrash. “Occasionally, you have to be forced outside your comfort zone, right?” he says. “You just gotta have thrash.” Of course his show, Punk’d, is an example of thrash, but came with mixed reviews when his elaborate pranks brought some to tears. Still Kutcher maintains, “If everyone is happy, you’re not doing anything.” I finished the article, but continued thinking about thrash.

Creating movement in a disruptive kind of way.

A few days after my return, Duncan and I went to watch our son’s varsity basketball game. It was senior night, and our team hoped for a win after a losing season. One senior played his best game but fouled out in the fourth quarter. We’d seen a lot of bad ref calls, and that kid was clearly frustrated as he headed to the bench. Tears lined his cheeks.

Then, the coach of the opposing team made an unexpected move…Continue reading