God Says it Best

God Says it Best

On my last trip to Uganda, I was asked to speak to the older girls about sexual purity. I felt my heart sink.

Many of you know that my husband, Duncan Hill, started Uganda Orphans Fund in 2002 to rescue orphans and children at risk. On my first trip to Uganda, over ten years ago, I had asked a Ugandan woman named Eva the hard questions about AIDS in Africa. “This is catastrophic! Why don’t people talk about AIDS over here?”

She spoke calmly, explaining that their culture had deep roots in polygamy. In modern times, that translated to promiscuity—almost a male “right.” On top of that, women in Africa are far more dependent on men. “In your country, women are independent,” she said. “If a man puts sexual pressure on a woman, she can say ‘No.’ But here in Africa, if a young woman goes to work and her boss imposes on her—to refuse is the equivalence of anarchy.” In other words, she stands to lose everything. So men get AIDS and expose others, including their wives.

At the time, great efforts to stem the tide were already underway in Uganda. HIV rates had reached epidemic proportions in the 80s, but declined in the 90s due to a government campaign called “ABC”—Abstinence, Be faithful, or Condoms. Reports showed that promoting abstinence and monogamy were most essential in reversing the devastating spread of AIDS.

But cultural changes are not that easy.Continue reading

God Speaks Through “Place”

God Speaks Through “Place”

My friend wrote about driving past a certain side road on his way home from the beach. A powerful feeling emerged. That particular road held strong emotional history for him. Still, he went on his way. What kept him from turning down that memory-laden lane?

The Beatles wrote about relationship with “places.”

“There are places I remember all my life, though some have changed.

Some forever not for better; some have gone, and some remain.

All these places have their moments, of lovers and friends I still can recall.

Some are dead and some are living. In my life I loved them all.”

It’s natural to associate memories with exact spots of real estate, but more importantly, God can speak through place.

The golden days of my childhood are largely contained in a place called Crayhaven—a cluster of cabins by the deep blue waters of the French River, in the northern woods of Ontario. Much of my early spiritual history happened in those scenes—whether swimming off the dock, or venturing into the stillness of mossy-carpeted woods, or warming my legs in front of a crackling fire.

My grandfather built the first cabin in 1938, and my grandmother christened it by writing a short poem called, “The Crayhaven Creed”…

            Here is a place to rest, a time for relaxation.

            Here Nature’s at her best, releasing you from frustration.

            Here’s a place for laughter, a place where friend meets friend.

            Discord must not enter, nor wills be made to bend.

            Here God’s love surrounds us. Let’s listen to His will.

            Not always in loud voices, but by sometimes being still.

With gentle words, she urged me to listen for God—and her invitation took. Over the years, I whispered many things to God in that place. And He whispered back.Continue reading

Walking In Mystery

Walking In Mystery

“To go on, you have to be willing to walk in days of mystery.”

That was the takeaway from a vivid dream I had years ago. On the screen of my mind, while fast asleep, I was hiking up a mountain trail with a familiar group of people. The well-marked path seemed easy enough to follow. No chance of getting lost. We trudged up the steepest parts single-file through thick woods, until at last we reached a beautiful alpine meadow. Wildflowers speckled the hillside with color. We stopped in the warm sunshine to remove windbreakers and jackets. Some took long drinks of water.

After catching our breath, a few of us realized the trail was not clearly defined in the meadow. We wandered in different directions, searching for any hint of it. I remember laying a deflated inner tube on top of some brush as a marker—in case we lost our way. We combed the terrain for hours.

Another bunch of hikers came up the same path. They couldn’t find the trail either and huddled to discuss. Abruptly, they turned-tail to leave.

“Don’t you want to see what’s ahead?” a man from our group hollered to them.

But they continued to drop out of sight, and the last man waved his arm down sharply, as if to say, “No way!”

We kept hunting. Eventually, I came upon the inner tube and realized I’d been going in circles. Sighing, I shrugged my shoulders. Then stepping closer, I noticed the tube was now filled with air. I slung it over my arm, curious about the change.

Suddenly, a woman from our party yelled, “Hey! You gotta see this!” Continue reading